COUNT(DISTINCT) в множество колони в SQL Server 2008

Можете да използвате cross apply и values .

select T1.AssetId,
       count(distinct T2.ID) TotalIds,
       sum(case T2.InStock when 0 then 0 else 1 end) AvailableIds 
from YourTable as T1
  cross apply(values(T1.MyId, T1.InStock),
                    (T1.TheirId, 0)
             ) as T2(ID, InStock)
group by T1.AssetId  

SE-Data

Или можете да направите union all в подзаявка.

select T.AssetId,
       count(distinct T.ID) TotalIds,
       sum(case T.InStock when 0 then 0 else 1 end) AvailableIds 
from (
     select AssetId, MyId as ID, InStock
     from YourTable
     union all
     select AssetID, TheirId, 0
     from YourTable
     ) as T
group by T.AssetId